鸟尽弓藏

Once I recognized that I had no one's expectations to live up to but my own,I relaxed.
当我终于明白，唯有我自己的期待需要我去背负时，我释然了。

一千个活法各有各的美感，只选择你最喜欢的那种;不然，太累。

(我这蹩脚翻译不要在意，读原句，好句子。